There
are a lot of things that are constraining us here. It feels like they put me in
an already little cage that I barely fit into (so I have to stick my arms and
legs out) and somehow with every single attempt to get comfortable they make it
even tighter and tighter...
Since
when is it a sin to compliment on someone else’s body? And why should I feel
offended about it?
Women,
what do you say when someone else compliments on your dress?
“Oh
this old piece of shit?” Hoping that those people will start persuade you about
it being otherwise? Bullshit! No one will! People, and especially men, don’t
want to argue with you. And you know what? They will never ever compliment you
on anything ever again, because you do not know how to take a compliment...
I
have an advice for you... When someone tells you that your dress looks nice,
you say: “Oh, thank you. I’m glad you like it.” or “Oh, thank you. That’s what
I needed to hear.” By doing this, we encourage people to compliment us much
more. However, this should be the same when someone compliments on anything of
yours - new haircut, good looking ass or sexy boobs!
Why
are women, and especially American women, so uptight about anything that comes
down to their body? You think you look fat? Well do something about it instead
of complaining! But if someone compliments your fat ass than you say thank you!
Because it doesn’t matter if you are happy with it or not the person on the
others side obviously likes it. So, enjoy the attention!
Good point! We could all use a little more "freedom" to accept and make compliments. Some over zelous/rude complimenters took it to the level of unwanted harassment which leads to the sterile work environment.
ReplyDeleteThis article is targeting mostly compliments, but it applies also to jokes. A lot of people take joking way too seriously and what is "innocent joke" can be a nightmare the other day (when you are packing your stuff to a box)...
DeleteNice. More stuff to read please. You are doing it right:)
ReplyDelete:D I'll do my best. Got a lot of ideas, but have finals in school ahead of me...
DeleteThanks, though!